What Are Your Reasons for Wanting A Better Life.

We all have lots of reasons for wanting a better life,

Most reasons of want are not brought out to the foreground as support to boost our motivation.  Encouraging us to make big moves that could change one’s life.

We all want to improve things as we move along in life, like constant change, we build or create many things.   Some process’s work a lot better than others.  Then we look back at what might have caused the problems and we start to improve on them for the next time.

Income necessities. 

The same applies with our income and assets. We start our working life wanting to make enough to pay our rent and cover our regular weekly supplies.

If our first income is only part-time or a very low paid full-time job.  Some might find it difficult to put sufficient money away to save for their first car to drive themselves to work.

They are most likely only going to buy a secondhand car fairly cheap if it’s really needed to save transport costs or walking distances.

Others may be able to hold off from splashing out on big items.  Until they have saved enough to buy the items that they have had on their dream list and have a set time to save for it.

Expand our options.

Through our lives we would like to be able to improve on our income and savings each year.  We should diversify by making incomes from a number of different sources.

Build a business of your own.

To buy a home in the majority of cases will mean taking out a home loan which can be one of our most expensive investments.   Hopefully we have at that stage the income to support it.

Financial freedom means the ability to finance anything you require to maintain a stable living and   family life .  Plus, increase savings for anything that may come up along the way.

What are your reasons?

Give Praise to Those Who Made Effort.

Success is just a word.

We want to be heaped with praises? when we know that we have succeeded in our accomplishments.

Do you want to know? how many wonderful friendships from all around the world you will have established with people who want to help you.  People who are there to encourage you along the way to your success.

Success should be something that will drive you to the destination that you want to achieve in your life.

Maybe this place is where they feel most comfortable. They may want to do better in life but there is this wall built up in front of them called,

“Impossible”, that is stopping them from making the effort.

We create our obstacles to success..

Have you ever heard someone say? I have never or will never accomplish anything in my life.  Then their best friend turns around and tells them about ten things that they have done in the past.   That they have succeeded in or made a difference in the community.

If life is not enjoyable at times, we can forget all the positive memories and emotions that drive us to better attitudes and opportunities.  It’s time to make the effort and see big changes in your life.

Breaking our barriers.

Just think what it will do for your family and maybe your marriage. You can break all the barriers that are holding you back.

Always keep a positive attitude, first thing in the morning when you wake up is the best time to go over any strong affirmations you may have written down.  Affirmations that can help to boost your confidence and keep a positive mind.

Here is a door to your success.   Open Sesame!!!

 

Congratulations!

Income equals lifestyle.

  Income equals Lifestyle.

A continually growing and accessible income is a possible basis for a happy and fulfilling lifestyle.
It is up to those who have enough interest in wanting success and going out there to seek it out.

We’re all seeking something different in our lives, we don’t want to sit stagnant in one position for long periods.
One tends to get bored and frustrated if we can’t make even small changes along the way.

A big find.

Gold miners are always out there looking for the next big find.
For their in seeking mode and make a mediocre find that may satisfy them for a while.
When that major big find is still on their lips, They can taste it, and that drives them on and on.

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Motivated miners will not sit back and wait for it to come to them.
They’re out there and put in the Blood, Sweat and Tears.

With only the drive of the chance to find some of that elusive gold.

The drive inside.

It would be amazing if we had the same drive to improve our own income.    That amazing drive that continued day and night.
Knowing that for a long period of time they would  not see any tangible benefits of all your hard work.

We tend to want to see something, even just a little to let us know we are on the right track. Understanding  that  we are not putting money into something for nothing.

Lots of people tend to want instant  gratification   for our efforts and tend not to be able to hold out for the big benefits.

Don’t give up just before the finish line.

We have heard of gold miners giving up and leaving their plot after years of hard slogging,

Only to find  that someone else came in and has acquired his old plot.
To find that they had   found the mother load  within hours of starting to dig.

How would you feel if you were the one who left this plot?.

Quitting is not an option.

No one wants to be the one who decided to quit,  to find that those who took over where you left off have  made a killing financially. Most likely with the same plan and strategies that you had when you left.

Are you seeking a serious change in your lifestyle and financial situation.
It is your decisions and motivation that will make the difference. Push ahead, even if it is a small step at a time.
As long as you are moving forward then your destination will be getting closer.

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You can make it happen.

My Wife and I Love Cruising.

Great Destinations

It wasn’t always that way,  

I had never been on a cruise of more than two hours in my life at all, if you can call a local ferry a cruise that is.  We went on our first cruise for 35 days in 2013 around the pacific and Hawaii.

I could never handle traveling even in small boats, the instability did not set well with my stomach.

Changing one’s thoughts.

Before the cruise I decided to change my attitude to how I felt about cruising, so I changed my whole beliefs about cruising.   By the time of the cruise, I walked on the ship feeling really great and looking forward to the weeks ahead.

 We were on the ship for five days before we got to our first stop and the weather was fine and calm great for me to get used to the ship.   The whole cruise worked out to be amazing.

What will encourage you.

We have had three cruises since then, but we are finding it a bit harder to finance the next one we want to do.   At this time of COVID19 another cruise may be awhile off.   This is one of my big wants for the future encouraging me to make the effort to build my own income online.

There are lots of things in our lives that will act as great encouragement to drive us to do more but for our family and Cruising has been a big one.

Yet we don’t have to look far back in time to remind us of the things gone bye. Things we could have gone ahead with if finances had not been a problem. House improvements, A more reliable car, one we could only afford at the time.

Personally. 
At this time my wife and I don’t have a home of our own and we are full time House sitters. We have been doing this for the last six and a half years.     We have over 90 sits behind us. 

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COVID 19.
What a change in this world at this time, So unexpected! Cruising has taken an extreme step backwards at this time.  Along with a tumultuous world fighting back from this virus.
We still have to look forward to where we are heading and where we want ourselves to end up.

We still have our dreams and some of our goals may have changed but the important thing is the direction you want to head in.   We still love cruising and in a couple of years we will I hope go cruising again.

What are your ambitions?

What are the things that will drive you to take the next step forward, to accomplish something that could get you the success.   That success that you may have been desperately seeking through many hard times.   Some things that would have been out of your financial reach in the past.

Decision time.

Now its time to step out and make decisions that will make all these things you have only dreamed about come to life.  With Wealthy Affiliate you have everything you need to make things happen for you and your future right at your fingertips

The success you have always wanted.

You want to succeed?

Now is the time to start the journey.

To take a journey or holiday you first make a plan as to where you want to go. Then it is time to work out what has to happen right from day one which might be 6 months from the holidays starting date.

 One may have to plan the time off work, organize all the travel and connections. Arrange all your accommodation and if you are prearranging your tours they can sometimes also be organized beforehand.

The Unpredictable.

 When you travel you are relaxed because you have everything prearranged and all you have to do is follow the schedule. Your then free to enjoy the wonderful destinations along the way.

There are the occasional times when a holiday may be a disaster right from the start. Travelers find that they set the travel tickets for the wrong date and the family only finds out when they arrive at the airport.

 Others may find that their money has run out and they are only half-way through their trip. You have probably come across someone who have mentioned to you that they can’t go away on a holiday. Special occasion also because they can’t afford it.

Success and achievement.

Success is always there; you just have to work with some basic principles to achieve the things you are seeking on your way to the destination. You may be making decisions on where you and your family want to be financially in the future.

You may be at present in a situation where you have limited income and are finding it extremely difficult to take family time off. or working in a job where they expect you to fall in line or be constantly under their thumb.

We tend to spend so much of our lives under someone else’s work and income thumb. We should be the ones to be free to make our own choices in life.

We have to take the big steps if we want to escape the rigors of our financially restrained and restricted life choices. We make our own moves and create our own opportunities in life.

The conclusion.

When you take your next step, it is one step to the conclusion of a movement towards a destination. It does not matter how long or short, whether it be to cross a road or cross the continent. You always have the destination at the end.

You may even have a celebration. Maybe a kiss with a friend you are meeting or a special event you may be attending. Success is always present; we tend not to take notice of the mundane and less important goals that we have achieved through life.

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Think about your steps and where they are taking you, you may get a surprise.

My debts are crushing me.

Do I have to live with my debts.

Do you get the feeling that you have heard this statement before, I have not only heard it but experienced it firsthand at a few stages of my life.
If this is something that has been pulling you down lately, then you are not alone.

When you hear of bank foreclosures all the time, but they would be more prominent when interest rates rise. People are more likely to afford to buy a house when the interest rates are low.
They buy because at those low rates because at this stage they can afford to handle the payments, but in some cases some people don’t plan for what might happen if rates rise considerably.

If things happen fairly quickly in the first few years of the loan, they can find themselves in a situation where they are not even covering the interest and the bank might come calling.

The income you provide for     family can determine where you live, the school your children attend, the clothes they wear, Weather you take family holidays or not.

Gifts they may share with each other, Christmas, Birthday’s and other special; times, , The Car the family drives, The medical attention or dental treatment that the family may need, most likely on the spur of the moment.

There are so many things that can restrict a families lifestyle,  A father buys a cheap baby seat for his child in the car but can’t afford one that is safety approved because he can’t afford it.

Skimping  on car repairs or scheduled servicing, even Tyre replacement which puts the family at risk.

Where do we stop!

Don’t ever think that you are always restricted to a certain amount of income for a set amount of time.  I know!  You are working for a boss, and he sets the rules, and the pay.

Don’t ever say! You don’t deserve to be at the higher steps of life.  You are now at the height level of your own making.

If you are financially strapped then, you are the one who eventually has changed your situation.
You can’t just sit back and watch the next few months go bye and keep saying to yourself, It’s Happening! I’m going to go broke!

Set some goals,  get Motivated,   Change your financial situation you can do it!

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Do it for the family.

Family Benefits.

You are ultimately the one in charge of your own life, what you make of your life is up to you. Each step you take in life is a decision that you yourself make. Nobody else can make you move unless you allow them to.

It is ultimately your decision to either hold yourself back in life, or run ahead and accomplish all the wonderful, amazing opportunities that you want to accomplish in your life.

Your choices or theirs

Do you go with your own decisions or do you usually go with the crowd. I love walking and I find that you can discover many interesting places when you take the least worn path.

You may find new obstacles that you have to negotiate to be able to continue on the track, you may enjoy putting your body to the test and eventually you find your way to the end of the track.

The benefits you receive are knowing that you have succeeded and know that all the effort you had put into it was all worthwhile.

Go! Go! Go!. 

it is always very enjoyable to be there and watch the reaction of someone who has just passed the finish line of a race in first place, the exhilaration on show as they realize that all their effort has paid off.

Most likely we were not there when they were struggling up hill at one point in the race, when in their mind the obstacles of negative thought crept in and they were not feeling very positive about their position in the race at all at that time.

Where to start.

We all want to succeed as a family and that means financially as well, so the planning and goal setting are much the same, there is a starting line, and a finish line.

There are always obstacles that we have to negotiate around, or we may decide to go strait through like a bull at a gate.

It would be unrealistic to say that it is possible to find a race, a plan, or any sort of goal that has to be accomplished that have no obstacles between the start and finish line.
Obstacles could be competition, Not knowing the trail that you are competing on, your health, your shoes, we could go on and on, and on.

Encouragement.

Your Family can be a great incentive and encouragement to make something special happen like helping you to change your work circumstances or change your work completely.

You may be working long hours with little pay and want to try an online business working only two maybe three hours a day. I know what I would prefer.

A family unit has to rely on the breadwinner or breadwinners who are in some instances constantly maneuvering finances to help keep afloat.  They may be working four or five jobs between them, all short hours and with very minimal pay.

Even with these incomes they still fall short of their financial maintenance goals, they may have a very nice home which they bought through a large loan at very low rates which they could handle very easily at the time.
Now a few years later interest rates have gone up substantially and they are now paying much more than the monthly payments that they started the loan with.

Turning the grindstone.

Are we constantly going to stay in these situations and continue working ourselves to death and still not winning the battle.

We all enjoy our successes, even when you think they may be few.